EliteSingles is the number one dating website and app for professionals, well-educated individuals, and other singles who have achieved a certain level of success in life. One of the downfalls of having challenging and rewarding careers is that they can make it difficult to connect with compatible people on a personal level. That’s why so many successful adults have turned to EliteSingles. The model for our platform is based on mutual compatibility. In other words, instead of just signing members and sending them off to swipe on hundreds of profiles, we prioritize the member’s wants and compatibility indicators, presenting them with a curated list of highly agreeable potential matches.
An Intro to Online Dating
If you’ve been single during the last ten years, chances are good that you’ve downloaded at least one dating app. Depending on which app you selected and what your experience was, you may have a favorable or unfavorable opinion of these platforms. However, no matter what your past experience was, it’s important to note that not all dating platforms are equal. In fact, there are numerous apps, like EliteSingles, that work better for specific demographics. In a general-purpose dating app, the member will create a profile and then try to match with other members by swiping on their profile previews. It can take hundreds of swipes to result in one or two dates. And a relatively low percentage of those dates turn into viable relationships.
Other dating apps, like Christian Mingle, SilverSingles, and, of course, EliteSingles, attempt to appeal to a specific demographic. The idea is that the members that these apps are designed to appeal to would prefer meeting people who are similar to themselves. However, EliteSingles takes this approach a step further. EliteSingles members complete a psychological profile that helps our algorithm determine the type of partner you’re looking for. It then attempts to match you with people who are most suitable for you. For busy singles, this can be a tremendous time-saver and a key to eliminating dates that lead nowhere.
If you’re on a dating site to find love, this article can help. Read on to get the most out of your online dating experience.
7 Effective Tips for Finding Love Online
These tips come from our members, dating experts, and psychologists. We believe that if you adopt all seven, you’ll find your partner in time.
1. Create an Effective Dating Profile
This is a really important step if you want to connect with other members. No matter who you are and what you offer, if your profile doesn’t reflect it, other members will move on.
- Pictures – Include multiple pictures showing you in different settings. Make sure your photos are recent, unfiltered, and accurately represent how you currently look. It doesn’t make sense to post a picture from 10 years and 20 lbs ago if you actually intend to meet people.
- Bio – Tell the truth when you’re discussing various aspects of your life that you feel would be of interest to another member. Naturally, you shouldn’t disclose private matters that are not for public consumption. It’s fine to leave details out, but misstatements of fact have a way of catching up with you. Try to be positive when describing your wants and desires. For instance, “I’m looking for someone who leads a healthy lifestyle” sounds better than “No smokers!”
2. Be Clear About Your Dating Intentions
We have members who are looking for a spouse to parent their future children and others who want nothing more than friendship. Letting other members know what you’re looking for will help eliminate bad matches. For example, if you’re deeply religious, it doesn’t help to downplay it. You are much better off matching with others who are compatible with your faith.
3. Take Your Time
This should be your general approach when using an app and when meeting members in real life. When you first start using an app, you may feel overwhelmed by the possibilities — even if you’re not matching a great deal. This is normal. Take things slowly at first. Communicate with new matches at a leisurely, pressure-off pace. As you get to know the people you’re talking to, you can eliminate the ones who seem less than ideal.
Eventually, you will decide to go on a date. Rushing to get a person to go out with you within the first 24 hours can be a tremendous turnoff.
4. Communicate Effectively
Like many apps, EliteSingles offers an unlimited messaging platform for Premium Members. You can set alerts for your phone so you never miss a message from another member. Eventually, you may want to exchange contact information and meet in person. Here are some tips for effective communication on and off of the app.
- Don’t leave messages on “read” – Premium members can see read receipts, but even if you’re talking through another channel, it’s easy to forget to respond. If you’re busy, wait to open a message before you reply.
- Engage in active listening – Whether you are texting, on the phone, or talking in person, active listening is key to connecting with someone. People can tell when you’re truly engaged, so make sure they know that they’re holding your level of interest.
- Proofread your texts – Over 80% of EliteSingles hold a college degree. Most of them expect their partners to be articulate and accurate in their written communications. You don’t need to get all worked up over a typo, but knowing the difference between “there,” “their,” and “they’re” is an attractive quality.
5. Prioritize Safety when Dating
A lot of our members, especially men, tend to ignore the fact that there’s a risk in online dating. While it is true that EliteSingles has some of the highest security standards of any online dating service, there are some perils inherent in meeting strangers on any platform. Here’s what EliteSingles does to ensure your safety:
- All new member profiles are reviewed by a human security team.
- Violations of terms of service are addressed within 24 hours.
- 24/7 customer service for emergency situations.
- EliteSingles will not sell or share your information with third parties.
- All messages between members are end-to-end encrypted.
Here are some steps that you can use with any dating site to ensure you have a safe and fun experience.
- Do not share personal details in your profile or while messaging with other members.
- Avoid posting photos with family members or that reveal other details of your life.
- Before you meet in person, try to schedule a video call. This will help you avoid being catfished.
- Tell another person where you plan to meet. Check in with this safety person when you arrive and leave.
- Meet in a public place for the first time where there will be other people. The best first dates usually involve a quick, low-pressure meeting. Cafes, bars, and restaurants are ideal for first dates.
6. Be Patient and Persistent
If you’re seeking a real relationship, you need to put in the time. Make no mistake; it’s a competitive dating environment. You shouldn’t sit on a good opportunity for too long, but if you try to pursue an aggressive agenda, you’re liable to frighten off a great prospect. It’s also important not to put all of your eggs in one basket. If you find that one of your prospects is not going well, don’t take it personally. Move on to the next opportunity.
If you’re interested in someone, chances are that there are others who are also interested. Sometimes, you can stand out by being the low-pressure option. This is particularly effective with EliteSingles members who often have busy lives and careers. And if you feel like it’s not working, just reach out again. You can definitely get cut off by applying pressure, but it’s hard to blow your chances by trying to be too chill.
7. Trust Your Instincts
Your intuition has gotten you this far, so don’t abandon them now. If a member seems good on paper but isn’t piquing your interest, you’re allowed to walk away. You can decide how you want to handle it, but it’s perfectly fine to say, “I think I would like to keep looking,” or “I’ve met someone else.”
You can download the EliteSingles app from Google Play or the App Store. Or try EliteSingles for free on our website. Sign up today!
About the author: The EliteSingles Press Team